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June 15th

Strategic Goal Setting Series: Week2

Align & Connect: “Why doesn’t anyone get it?”

Hello again, Reader đź‘‹

Once upon a time, I managed my first software project...

I had a complicated diagram on a whiteboard, a meeting with the sales team of the delivery partner, where I waved my hands and described my exciting vision. They got excited about my vision and made promises on behalf of their technical team.

I hired a project manager and defined project milestones who worked with the technical lead worked towards delivering a list of criteria against which the platform could deliver.

But it was a disaster. delay after delay, functionality that did not deliver and in the end a cancelled contract with the service provider and another year of delays on what we wanted to achieve in the business

The problem?

There was no translation on the understanding of requirements and capabilities between the sales cycle and those delivering of the big picture, no clarity, or alignment.

This Week’s Superpower: 🧭 Align & Connect

If you’re running a business (or a team, or even just a project), you’ve probably had that moment:

“Why doesn’t anyone else see the big picture?”

Here’s why:
You’ve been thinking about this for weeks. Maybe months.
They just got looped in.

This week’s OKR superpower is about building alignment — the kind that creates buy-in, not just busywork.

Because when your team gets it, everything flows.

Alignment Starts With Connection

Think of alignment like rowing a boat.

If everyone’s paddling in sync, you glide.

But if one person is rowing backwards (or worse, just floating), you go in circles — or sink.

I used to think alignment meant a team meeting and a pretty PDF of the plan.

Now I know better.

Alignment means:

  • Your VA knows what done looks like
  • Your contractor understands the why behind the task
  • Your team feels like they’re part of the win — not just delivering it

Try This: The One-Page Alignment Exercise

Next time you delegate a task, include this:

  1. What’s the bigger goal this supports?​
    (e.g. “Grow our list by 500 leads this quarter”)
  2. What does success look like?​
    (e.g. “100 downloads of the freebie by end of month”)
  3. How does your part contribute?​
    (e.g. “Writing the welcome email that converts subscribers into clients”)

Suddenly, the task isn’t just a task. It’s a mission.

Feeling Disconnected From Your Own Goals?

Sometimes, alignment is an inside job.

If you feel disconnected from your goals — like they don’t excite you anymore — it’s worth asking:

  • Is this still what I want?
  • Have I shared this goal with the people who can help me get there?
  • Does my calendar reflect what I say I care about?

Let’s stop rowing in circles.

This week, try aligning just one person around one goal.
You’ll feel the difference.

With clarity,
​Anne​
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P.S. Next week is about TRACKING — but not the “spreadsheet guilt” kind. Think: momentum, not micromanaging.
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Anne đź’ˇ Gray

With an impressive background in the world of business, Anne Gray is a highly sought-after Consultant, dedicated to helping customer-obsessed and courageous decision-makers redefine the customer-centric strategy for their organizations. Armed with her MBA and extensive experience, Anne works with mid-growth companies and startups into enable holistic transformation into customer-centric powerhouses. In her early career, Anne studied a B.Sc Hons in Marine Ecology, and taught High School Physical Sciences before moving into Telecoms. Anne successfully sold her telecoms consulting and managed services business in 2022, with an already ignited her passion for optimizing the customer service experience. She puts her extensive knowledge, skills, and passion into creating transformative strategies and customer-centric cultures for businesses in need of a fresh perspective. Her expertise in crafting transformational methodologies and fostering a collaborative mindset has made her an invaluable asset for forward-thinking business leaders. Anne's dedication to continual improvement and value-added collaborations extends to her work with other business consultants and coaches. This approach allows her to provide holistic solutions to her clients, constantly expanding her wealth of knowledge to better serve those who seek her guidance. Anne publishes her experience in newsletters and masterclasses. If you're searching for an innovative, customer-focused leader to elevate your business to the next level, trust Anne Gray to deliver the results you need with unwavering dedication and passion. Check out the resources I offer below and sign up for my newsletter!

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